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ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNER

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It is worthy of notes that God did not create us for isolation. We all need someone to be accountable to or someone to hold us accountable especially when it comes to our personal goals. I do not believe there is such a thing as a self-made person. Although it is right to say you eventually are responsible for all the decisions you make in life, it is also correct to say that till you were able to make those decisions someone took out the time to nurture and to train you up with the ability to be independent. In this journey of being a writer, who is that someone you are accountable to or who holds you accountable? Who is that someone who checks up on you to ensure you are not giving up on your goal to become an author or whatsoever thing you want to become this year? Do you even have such a person in your life? Or are you a lone ranger? One thing is for sure, we all need some amount of push every now and then, and there is a limit to what we can do if we always want to be on ou...

See The POSITIVE In All SITUATIONS

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When all seems to be doom and gloom, there are still positive possibilities; you just have to look for them. Too often, we only focus on the negatives. Learn to look at every difficult situation as a present; the gift within is the possibilities it holds. To open the gift you must find the "possibility." When you are in a difficult or a stressful situation, reflect on the following four questions: ๐Ÿ“Œ Could it be worse? ๐Ÿ“Œ Are there lessons I can learn to avoid a similar situation in the future? ๐Ÿ“Œ What good can be realized? ๐Ÿ“Œ What am I going to do about it? โ—พ๏ธ COULD IT BE WORSE? In the majority of cases, there is always a worse situation we could be in. By reflecting on a worse situation, it helps put the current situation into perspective. โ—พ๏ธ ARE THERE LESSONS I CAN LEARN TO AVOID A SIMILAR SITUATION IN THE FUTURE? Look at the situation. Could it have been avoided? Don't go beating yourself up for not realizing this previously. Learn from the situ...