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ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNER

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It is worthy of notes that God did not create us for isolation. We all need someone to be accountable to or someone to hold us accountable especially when it comes to our personal goals. I do not believe there is such a thing as a self-made person. Although it is right to say you eventually are responsible for all the decisions you make in life, it is also correct to say that till you were able to make those decisions someone took out the time to nurture and to train you up with the ability to be independent. In this journey of being a writer, who is that someone you are accountable to or who holds you accountable? Who is that someone who checks up on you to ensure you are not giving up on your goal to become an author or whatsoever thing you want to become this year? Do you even have such a person in your life? Or are you a lone ranger? One thing is for sure, we all need some amount of push every now and then, and there is a limit to what we can do if we always want to be on ou...

See The POSITIVE In All SITUATIONS

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When all seems to be doom and gloom, there are still positive possibilities; you just have to look for them. Too often, we only focus on the negatives. Learn to look at every difficult situation as a present; the gift within is the possibilities it holds. To open the gift you must find the "possibility." When you are in a difficult or a stressful situation, reflect on the following four questions: 📌 Could it be worse? 📌 Are there lessons I can learn to avoid a similar situation in the future? 📌 What good can be realized? 📌 What am I going to do about it? ◾️ COULD IT BE WORSE? In the majority of cases, there is always a worse situation we could be in. By reflecting on a worse situation, it helps put the current situation into perspective. ◾️ ARE THERE LESSONS I CAN LEARN TO AVOID A SIMILAR SITUATION IN THE FUTURE? Look at the situation. Could it have been avoided? Don't go beating yourself up for not realizing this previously. Learn from the situ...

TAKE A LOOK AT YOUR FUTURE

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The mind is the womb of the future. A dream is simply your mind pregnant with the picture of your tomorrow. Be drawn to your tomorrow as you construct it in your imagination today. Dream freely. Its a gift of God to be able to dream. Put no limits on what you can achieve. Limitations are self generated. People who did great things removed the limitations and pursued their dreams. People called them crazy but they did it anyway. So can you. Create your future in your imagination and use your hands to bring it to pass. This is the capacity  God has gifted man. Use it freely and live life to the full. Dream, then do. Do and then it shall be done! Take the limits off. Yes you can. No matter what happens in life, either you move forward or you don't.  It really is that simple. And whether you have faced hard times or not, you got to keep moving forward and do what you are most  passionate about, no matter what anyone says or thinks, it doesn't matter and never will,...

DREAMS

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What comes to you in the middle of the night while you are deep in sleep is called dreams. They come in different genres. They are either scary, beautiful, informing, directing, chastising or transforming.  Which ever form it comes, be sure to do these when you are awaken to real life. CONDUCT SELF EVALUATION TEST Do you have the capacity to meet up with the demands of your dreams? Take a stock of your strengths and weaknesses. BE PREPARED Put your mind, body and soul in perfect order before you embark on a journey to your dreams. One broken chip can destroy the entire system. GET RESOURCES What are those things that you will need to pursue your dreams with? Money, education, training, consultations, etc. Get it very fast and act on it. MANAGE YOUR TIME Be vigilant, conscious and prudent with this intangible asset called time. Don't be too available for everything. Prioritize your actions and delegate other assignments. ACT ON Don't wait for a perfect co...

PURPOSE DEFINES YOU!

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The greatest gift in life isn't monetary or physical gifts but purpose of living and purpose of breathing. The richest man by my definition isn't the man who could buy a generation but a man who could give a generation PURPOSE of doing greater, breathing finer and living with love amidst their brothers.  A man in darkness isn't a man of evil nor born by the devil, he is a man battling with the battle of his own. He might be mistaken as an enemy because of the trails of his shadow but he is not battling his battle to please anyone rather for his conscience and his coming generation. No matter the color of your battle, remember that there is a PURPOSE behind every battle, its not an interrogative question but an evaluation for your conscience. Stand up and fight, if you don't no will, its your battle fight and win, you are a conquerer but don't get carried away by the passerby's of the battle. Purpose defines you. Purpose shift you to function effectively...

BE YOU

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You were not born to be average, normal or typical. You were not born a carbon copy. You were born unique, born to excel, born to manifest the glory of the universe with your authentic spirit. You are not weak. You are stronger than you imagine, wiser than you know, and have vast powers that you have yet to actualize. Stop playing small. Be YOU. Tell your truth - now, today, this very moment. Manifest your true self - not a poor reflection of your circumstance. Don’t walk through this world unconscious of your greatness, sleep walking, surrendering your light to the bland grey around you. You were born to be brilliant, To be light, To be fire, To illuminate. Infuse your best self into this moment, into your choices, into your deeds, into the habits you create. Always choose greatness, honor, love, kindness. Be conscious about all your choices. Choose your body through conscious consumption, Choose your attitude, through conscious thought. Choose your destiny by being pres...

A REASON, A SEASON OR A LIFE TIME!

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People come into your life for a REASON, a SEASON or a LIFE TIME. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON. It is usually to meet a need. You have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are.... They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on. Some people come into your life for a SEASON. Because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. T...