THE IRREFUTABLE LAWS OF RELATIONSHIP

Relationship makes the world go on and life is all about relationship. It takes a relationship between a man and a woman for a child to be born, it also takes relationship for the child to be successful.
Several people fail in life not because they lack talent or gift but because they lack the right kind of relationship, because they do not have the right connect amongs the right people. In my years of consulting and chit chatting with people, have come to discover that its better to make friends than customers.
Customers looks for where it is sell cheaper and closer to there house or just different, but friends is committed to you inspect of all. If relationship does not save from trouble, it helps from trouble. Two things that will surely get you out of the trouble of life are friends and funds. But you need to know that it takes friends to raise the funds. Your friends determines your end.

Relationship are vital because no matter your dream, it takes a team to fulfill the dream. The laws of relationship I will be discussing here are;

1. LAW OF RECIPROCAL: Whatever you sow in a relationship is what u will surely get out of it. What u sow is what u reap. As you lay your bed so you lie on it. Relationship are like bank account, if you keep on making withdrawal without deposit, the relationship will go bankrupt. You want people to be nice to you, then be nice to them. It's not that you will reap where you sow.....understand that you will reap what you have sown.... What goes around surely comes around. If you want things to be better for you, you'd better think of how to be good to people.

2. LAW OF LOVE LANGUAGE: Everybody have different ways that love is communicated to them.. Garry Chapman give 5 predominant list of love languages, which are;
• Gift giving
• Act of service
• Words of affirmation
• Quality time
• Physical touch
Each of us has a expressive and receptive preference in this language of love. Find out the love language of people close to you.

3. LAW OF INTIMACY: It is said that intimacy is developed with whom you pray, for whom you pay, and with who you play. The situation you can't avoid to remove your mask and just be you. You might heard it before that "indeed the family that prays together stays together." Time spent together enhances intimacy. If you don't want intimacy with a fellow, then don't spend time playing with him/her because as you play you will create a bond. If you play with me you will sooner or later get intimate with me. Remember, a man is never far away from his investment... So for the ladies out there, a man is never faraway from his investment... Never, never.

4. LAW OF APPRECIATION: Whatever you appreciate increases. Whatever you appreciate gravitates towards you. Nobody goes to where he/she is tolerated but to where he/she is celebrated. Every relationship that you do not appreciate depreciates. Appreciation is the fertilizer of relationship. And the languages of appreciation has three folds, which are;
• Thanks
• Am sorry
• Excuse me
If you refuse to say Thanks for the blessings received or Am sorry for mistakes committed or Excuse me when necessary, that means you are taking your relationship for granted. And if you do, you will be grounded.

5. LAW OF SHARING: You can give without loving but cannot love without giving. Love shares, and love is the bases for relationship. You want to share your life, time, energy, vision, and even liabilities with people you love and relate with, and love could be defined as what you have being through with someone. I don't believe in love at first sight but i do believe in love at foresight. Will I want to share my life, profits, results, and struggles with this person am relating with? This is the question only you can answer.
Sharing is about caring. A problem share they say is half solved, but the beauty of it all is right here..... A problem share is totally solved.

Keep living gracefully and successfully.