YOUR RELATIONSHIP, YOUR COMMITMENT

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Do you all believe that one of the reasons why people give up easily in their relationship is lack of commitment. A lot
of people are in a relationship but aren’t committed to it not to talk of making it work. The truth of the matter is
that when you are in a relationship and you are not ready to be committed to it not to talk of making it work, such relationship will never work out. You will just be making the other person who is committed to suffer because only one-person can’t make it work, it requires the both of you to
work it out.

Some are in a relationship but their mind is somewhere else which shouldn’t be. It is lack of commitment that will make you not to be bothered or concerned about the other person, it is lack of commitment that will make you not to have time for him or her, it is lack of commitment that will
make you give excuses all the time, it is lack of commitment that will make you not to communicate with each other. Lack of commitment in a relationship or whatsoever we are doing is a bad habit..


To be committed means to put the whole of one's energy, strength, effort, time and power to something or in something in order to bring out the best from that thing.
Even has a student that want to succeed in his or her academic, he or she needs to be committed to his or her studies, if not, he or she won't succeed. That's how relationship looks, and that's what love requires.

If truly you want your relationship to last and succeed, youneed to be committed to your relationship willingly and not
by force. Commitment in a way that you are ready to do anything to make your relationship work, am not saying you
should be giving him/her sex in order to make your relationship work, sex and romance is excluded from this.

Even sex does not guarantee success of a relationship. Commitment in a way that you are ready to pay the sacrifice in order to make your relationship work.
Commitment in a way that you are ready to put in all your best, energy, strength and ability into the relationship so has to make it work out well. But any relationship that lack commitment, such relationship can't get to the promise
land. Commitment in a way that you are ready to do things for your partner without him or her asking you or telling you to
do it before doing it. Until you are committed to your relationship, you can never bring out the best from it. But when you are being forced before you do anything in your relationship, when you are being forced before you communicate with your partner, when you are being forced before you play with your partner, that is not love, it is called “force love”. When you are truly committed to your
relationship, you won't be forced before you do anything to make your relationship work. You would have done it before
your partner requests for it. Love wants someone to do something willingly from his or her heart without forcing that person to do it or before doing it. And when you truly
love someone from bottom of your heart, you will be ready to do anything for him or her without him or her asking you to do them.

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