YOUR RELATIONSHIP,YOUR MATURITY

Maturity is not all about age, it is how matured you are in handling things. And for you to be able to handle your relationship, you need to be matured, without that, it can't be easy for you to  handle your relationship. Maturity has a lot to do with your relationship, marriage and love. At times your partner might just do some things that will want to get you angry, but maturity will help you  to calm yourself down and handle the situation . There will also be  times that an issue will come up between you and your partner, maturity will also help you to be able to handle it.

You don’t do like a baby in your relationship, lack of maturity is a childish behavior  You need to grow and wake up from being a child to adult.

In a love relationship, it means being able to enjoy the instant gratification that comes with the romance of the moment while knowing the best is yet to be and being patient while you watch your love grow. It is knowing that by working together, the state of unconditional love will presence itself in the relationship and will mature with time. It is knowing that you grow into a love relationship. It doesn't happen all at once. Mature love partners seek new ways to help each other grow.

Mature love partners have learned not to expect perfection in each other. They know that acceptance has its own reward. Each lover's differences test the other's capacity for acceptance, forgiveness and understanding. They never dance around issues. When necessary, they discuss their imperfections, lovingly, with care not to pass judgment with harmful words. Acceptance and tolerance hold hands in the presence of unconditional love.

Mature lovers -- lovers who love unconditionally -- develop a knack for side- stepping resentment and focusing on the good they see in one another. They have evolved to a higher level of understanding, one that transcends taking notice of the imperfections of the other.

Maturity...Love  deals with maturity and it is only those who are matured that will be capable of handling their love or relationship with their partner. Maturity has a lot to do with love. And when we are talking about maturity, maturity is not all about money, fame or age, maturity is all about how matured you are in the way you handle things or situations around you.

Many people are in a relationship but they aren’t matured enough in terms of handling things between them and their partner. Some people think that once they are 20 or 25 years they can go into in a relationship, but it's not. You can be 25 or 35 years old and still not matured.

Mature love partners permit each other the freedom to pursue their individual interests and friends without restriction. This is when trust presents itself. Mature love allows this level of separateness to bring lovers closer together. In this scenario separateness is perceived as a bond, not a wedge. It encourages love partners to celebrate their own uniqueness.

We can come to realize that mature love equals loving yourself for being what you are, and likewise loving another person for who they are. When we can feel such unconditional no-matter-how-you-act love, we have learned what I call mature love. Mature love allows you fully to be yourself with your loved one.

And this happened to one couple, the wife said am sorry I didn't know it was there, and the husband replied her with ohhh sweetie is not up to that, I know you can't brake it intentionally, and the wife went on her kneels to continue begging, but the husband stood up and lift her up and said darling is nothing, I would get another one tomorrow and he hugged her.

Maturity is the ability to live up to the responsibilities of a love relationship, and this means being dependable. It means keeping your word; it means living in your relationship like your word really means something. Dependability equates with personal integrity. This means no withholds. It means saying what needs to be said, with love. Do you mean what you say? Do you say what you mean?

What is  reciprocating? It means to do back or give back something you are been given . In another word, it means you doing back or sending back what your partner is doing to you. What do I mean by that? What I mean is that, for example. When your partner is showing love to you, doing everything to please you..

It is very vital and important to  reciprocate back the love to the sender. When your partner is showing you love, always try as much as possible to show him or her back the love. When your partner is doing something to make you happy, to please you, you also should try as much as possible to do same, even if it won't be exactly like his or her own, but reciprocate  the love. That's when you can make him or her happy. Love needs someone who can reciprocate back the love without asking or demanding for it. You must reciprocate back the love willingly and not forcefully, that's the best way to enjoy relationship... It is the sugar of  relationship, bcuz it makes it sweet..